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Anonymous	# Posted: 29 Mar 2008 09:19 Reply Hi. My name is Kate. I was wondering if you could tell me... I have problems with b/f who has mental problems. When he gets too unstable, he breaks up with me (comes back later, much about few months). Initialy we love each other. What can I do/ how can I make sure he stops break ups and let me "be there for him"? Thank you very much. __________________
TomAdmin Admin	# Posted: 30 Mar 2008 20:34 Reply Hello Kate, Well first let me say that I am not a psychic, but I will go ahead and try my luck at giving you some sort of tips. It sounds like your b/f might be going through some unusual stress in his life that causes him to break up with you repeatedly but then later come back to you. Honestly it probably has nothing to do with you, but instead him. So when you ask what can you do to make the breakups stop, I would say that it is probably very difficult to 'change' him or make him change permanently. Everyone in this world is unique and has unique personalities and habits and pasts... So maybe the best thing is for you to communicate to him how you feel about your relationship with him and let him know that you prefer to have a relationship that is more steady with him and that it is important to you. You deserve to have a steady relationship that is not too stressful and always breaking up every few months. So after you tell him how you feel, it is better to just listen and hear what he says. If he does not agree or is too unsteady to agree to such a thing, then you would have to decide whether you are willing yourself to keep going through such an on again and off again type of relationship.. If not, then maybe at some point it may be time to move on, and find your real happiness. Having said that, sometimes an on again, off again type relationship can turn into something more stable down the road as people grow older and wiser and realize what is most important in life... no guarantee, but sometimes it works this way. So you just need to make some decisions about what makes you happy and what you are willing to put up with too, because it important to put yourself first as well. In one past relationship I was in, I too also felt myself needing to be alone from my g/f for a while and then saw her again and then wanted to be with her again... and I think the reasons for it was that I am the type of person who needs a certain amount of space and so sometimes if I was with my g/f too much or too long I would feel like I get too crowded.... But later on I realized that my behavior could change if I just gave a hard thought to what I really wanted in life and felt was most important. GOOD LUCK! __________________ Psychic4u.net
Anonymous	# Posted: 2 Jun 2008 23:52 Reply This sounds like the guy I've been dating now off and on for 11 years. By the way, my name is Katie too and the guy I'm with has mental problems too. He got into the habit of breaking up with me over and over again everytime he got sick. We actually broke up for 2 years and he fathered 2 children with another woman, then wanted to get back together with me again.We are together now, living together and getting married. We're both about 34 years old and met in our early 20's. He has finally settled down with his mental illness and realized that he doesn't want to loose me because of it. Most men that have mental problems seem to settle down in their 30's, and if they find a woman that loves them enough to put up with all their ups and downs over the years, that is the woman they end up marrying. Chances are hun, if you can put up with his ups and downs long enough and he always comes running back to you after he gets sick, he will want to settle down with you because you are supportive enough to put up with his mental illness. Being mentally ill and a man is not a very attractive thing to most women, but if you are the few that understand, I would just tell him you are there for him and he doesn't need to push you away with his mental illness, and you don't judge him for it, even if he takes medication. He may not push you away as much, because of his emberrassment of his mental illness. He'll know that you accept him for all that he is and adore you for it. __________________

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